Looking for “Theology Meeting Life”?

If you are looking for the website “Theology Meeting Life” you are in the right place.  However, the name has been changed.  Why?  Because the traffic on the site is growing and I decided to register the domain rather than continuing to go with the free WordPress domain.  If you look at the URL above, you will notice you are at http://theologicallyspeaking.com , not https://timothyfarley.wordpress.com.  Either address should get you to this site, but if you are pulling RSS feeds for updates, you may need to change the address you have associated with this site.

Sorry if this is an inconvenience to anyone.  The topics we discuss on this site will still be focused on how Christian belief influences how we live.  Let me know how you like the new name.

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Why should anyone go to your church?

essential churchI have just started to read a new book by Thom and Sam Rainer.  The title of the book is Essential Church? and even after only reading the introduction, I am already convinced this is going to be a book that I will want to think through carefully.

In the introduction to Essential Church?, the authors point out that many of those who attend church in the U.S. drop out between age 18 and 22.  In fact, 70% of those in this age range will drop out.  Here are how some dropout percentages look by age category:

 

 

 

 

 

Between 15 and 16:  +1%

Between 16 and 17:  -15%

Between 17 and 18:  -24%

Between 18 and 19:  -29%

Between 19 and 20:  -5%

So, according to the authors, churches typically pick up a few attenders in the 15 to 16 age group, but after age 16 there is a mass exodus.  By the time this group reaches age 21, most of them have already left.

Why are they leaving?  The authors say it is because we have failed to make church an essential part of people’s lives.

How do you know if your church is on a path to becoming non-essential?  Here are seven warning signs:

  1. Doctrine Dilution – Watering down Scripture to cater to a younger generation only works for a short time.  They eventually learn what the Bible really says and this approach stings worse in the long run.
  2. Loss of Evangelistic Passion – Dying churches stop speaking of Christ to a lost world.
  3. Failure to Be Relevant – “Churches that keep their internal culture unchanged for 50 years while the world around them goes through continual periods of metamorphosis typically die with that old culture.”
  4. Few Outwardly Focused Ministries– “…,dying churches gorge themselves on closed Bible studies and churchwide fellowship events while neglecting outreach in the community.”
  5. Conflict Over Personal Preferences– “When the church focuses on trivial matters, the greater gospel message is left on the sidelines.”
  6. The Priority of Comfort – “…’the way we’ve always done it’ will not pass muster if the American church is to thrive.  Churches that flourish get outside comfort zones and reach into areas that are uncharted for them.”
  7. Biblical Illiteracy – a neglect of theological teaching.

As I stated, I just started reading this book, but I am already evaluating the ministries of my church.  I have to admit we fail in many of these areas.  How about you?  Is your church essential to your life?  How is it doing in each of the areas listed above?

I will be posting more on this book as I get further into it.

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A Church Without Discipline Will Soon Cease To Be A Church

In 1554 John Calvin wrote these words to another pastor:

I congratulate you on the tranquility of your churches, but it is greatly to be regretted that you do not possess, along with it, the sinews of discipline so necessary to insure its continuance. (Letters of John Calvin, 3:66-67.)

For Calvin, discipline was essential for correcting those who were in error.  He believed that Jesus instructed the church to practice discipline in Matthew 18:17-18.  Calvin writes:

For this power which we speak depends entirely upon the keys which, in the eighteenth chapter of Matthew , Christ gave to the church. There He commands that those who are contemptuous of private warnings be severely warned in the name of the people; but if they persist in the stubbornness, He teaches that they should be cut off from the believers’ fellowship (Matt 18:15–18). Now these admonitions and corrections cannot be made without investigation of the cause; accordingly, some court of judgment and order of procedure are needed. Therefore, if we do not wish to make void the promise of the keys and banish excommunication, solemn warnings, and such things, we must give the church some jurisdiction. (Institutes of the Christian Religion, 4.11.1)

So for Calvin, the unrepentant sinner was to be cut off from the fellowship of believers in hope that this action would penetrate that sinner’s heart and restore him/her to proper fellowship with God and the church.

I am not aware of many churches today that practice church discipline (although I know there are some).  I wonder if, by refusing to discipline its members, the church is actually stunting the spiritual growth of its people; perhaps even giving unbelievers (who wrongly believe they are saved) a false sense of security because they, along with their unrepentant mindsets, are warmly embraced by the community of Christ.  Have we contributed to a growth in nominal Christianity in our desire to love others unconditionally?  Have we forgotten that sometimes we love others best by correcting them using “tough love” rather than allowing them to continue to live a life of self-destruction?

If we as churches refuse to practice discipline, are we unknowingly weakening the Body of Christ?  Calvin summarizes his position in the Institutes:

As the saving doctrine of Christ is the soul of the Church, so discipline serves as its sinews, through which the members of the body hold together, each in its own place. Therefore, all who desire to remove discipline or hinder its restoration—whether they do this deliberately or out of ignorance—are surely contributing to the ultimate dissolution of the church. (Institutes of the Christian Religion, 4.12.1)

Does your church practice church discipline?  Do you think that church discipline is appropriate?  Is Calvin right when he says that neglecting discipline contributes to the downfall of the church?

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Should Churches Discipline Members for Repeat Sins?

I plan to write a post concerning church discipline, but want to get your response to the question below first.  Please answer the poll and leave your comments if you desire.  Check back in a day or two for my post.  Thanks.

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Will Starve for Food

30HFamine_Icon_reverseThose of you who normally read my site know that I do not often write about personal matters.  This site is primarily about discussing Christianity and how our Christian beliefs carry over into how we live our lives.

One of the things that I believe that we (as Christians) do far too poor a job of is caring for the less fortunate.  As a pastor, I am trying to instill a willingness and desire to change in this area in those I have an influence upon.

This year, I am leading students in my church in a 30-hour famine.  The famine is designed to raise awareness and financial assistance for those in poverty around the world (especially children).  Do you realize that 26,000 children die every day from preventable causes like hunger and lack of basic medical care?  We need to help.

In an effort to do our part, our group will stop eating on June 19th at 12:00 PM and not eat again until June 20th at 6:00 PM.  Through a partnership with World Vision, we hope to have individuals sponsor us in our famine by making donations to this cause.  Those donations will be used by World Vision for relief efforts around the globe.

Would you consider sponsoring us?  You can make a donation or learn more about World Vision and what they do at the link below.  Thank you.

http://www.30hourfamine.org/portal/onlinegiving/donate/103455103-001

If you have questions or comments, feel free to leave them below.

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Wal-Mart Refuses to Sell Latest Green Day CD

Green Day - 21st CenturyDid you know that Wal-Mart is the number one distributor of music CDs in the country?  Well, Green Day currently has the top-selling CD in the world, but you will not find it at Wal-Mart.

The reason?  Wal-Mart has a policy that states that they will not carry any music that has a Parental Advisory label on it.  Green Day’s CD has the label because of some of the language and subject matter found in it’s songs.

Often artists will release a “clean” version of their material, but Green Day has refused to do so.  Instead, they believe Wal-Mart should stop behaving like we are living “in 1953 or something.”

Of course Green Day is mostly concerned about other bands:

If you think about bands that are struggling or smaller than Green Day … to think that to get your record out in places like that, but they won’t carry it because of the content and you have to censor yourself,” he said. “I mean, what does that say to a young kid who’s trying to speak his mind making a record for the first time? It’s like a game that you have to play. You have to refuse to play it.

Quote taken from this article at Yahoo! Music.

Thanks for looking out for the little guy, Green Day.  I am sure this has nothing to do with money and wanting to sell a few more of your own CDs.  It is all about artistic integrity.

What do you think?  Should Wal-Mart carry the CD?  Should Green Day make a clean version of 21st Century Breakdown?

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13-Year-Old Running From Medical Treatment

I posted last week about Daniel Hauser, a 13-year-old boy who has cancer.  The family has been fighting a legal battle concerning the proper treatment for Daniel’s disease.  A judge has ordered Daniel to be treated through chemotherapy if doctors feel that is the best course of action.  Daniel and his parents have cited religious reasons for seeking alternative treatments for Daniel.  The judge has stated that the parents are guilty of medical neglect and Daniel must be treated.

Well, this story is not over.  It seems that Daniel and his mother have fled and are hiding to avoid undergoing the treatment prescribed by doctors and demanded by the judge.  The mother now has a warrant out for her arrest.

How do you feel about this situation?  How would you handle this if it were your child?  Should the family decide the best way to treat Daniel?  What exactly is “medical neglect” and how do we determine when someone is guilty of it?  Surely there are true cases of neglect as well as families who have religious convictions concerning medical treatment.  How do we distinguish between the two?

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Review: When God Goes To Starbucks, Paul Copan

God Starbucks - Copan A few weeks ago I received a book that caught my attention.  When I read the title, When God Goes To Starbucks, I was immediately drawn to the book and greatly curious about its contents.

My first impression (gained mostly from the title itself) was that this book was going to be written in a narrative format.  I imagined it containing the conversation(s) of two or more people sitting in a Starbucks discussing God and Christianity.  I was expecting a book along the lines of Brian McLaren’s New Kind of Christian, which records the conversation of two Christians discussing their faith.

I was wrong.  Author Paul Copan does not present his subject matter in a narrative format and there is no Starbucks in the book.  Instead, what Copan gives us is something far more useful.  When God Goes To Starbucks is a book that tackles the questions that Christians hear over and over again.  It is a book that gives answers to the questions a person would likely have if they were in a deep conversation about God in a coffee shop.

Each chapter deals with a different question, which is why I believe that a narrative format would not have been as helpful.  This book is meant to serve as a guide and reference to be turned to again and again when questions come up and we need answers.  Copan does a great job of supplying straightforward and well-reasoned defenses of the Christian faith in relation to some of today’s most challenging questions.  Here is a list of the questions or challenges Copan discusses:

  1. Why Not Just Look Out for Yourself?
  2. Do What You Want – Just as Long as You Don’t Hurt Anyone
  3. Is It Okay to Lie to Nazis?
  4. Why is God So Arrogant and Egotistical?
  5. Miracles are Unscientific
  6. Only Gullible People Believe in Miracles
  7. Don’t People From All Religions Experience God?
  8. Does the Bible Condemn Loving, Committed Homosexual Relationships?
  9. Aren’t People Born Gay?
  10. What’s Wrong with Gay Marriage?
  11. How Can the Psalmists Say Such Vindictive, Hateful Things?
  12. Aren’t the Bible’s “Holy Wars” Just Like Islamic Jihad? Part One
  13. Aren’t the Bible’s “Holy Wars” Just Like Islamic Jihad? Part Two
  14. Aren’t the Bible’s “Holy Wars” Just Like Islamic Jihad? Part Three
  15. Was Jesus Mistaken about an Early Second Coming? Part One
  16. Was Jesus Mistaken about an Early Second Coming? Part Two
  17. Why Are Christians So Divided?  Why So Many Denominations?

When God Goes To Starbucks does not give us shallow answers, but instead substantive arguments for the validity of Christianity and a Christian worldview.  This is a book that any Christian wanting to engage in the current conversation with our culture would do well to read and keep readily available to turn to again and again as questions arise.

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Answers Concerning “Angels and Demons”

So, has the newest movie based on a Dan Brown novel, “Angels and Demons”, have you asking questions about Christianity?  Is someone you know asking you questions?

Westminster Theological Seminary has an excellent website dedicated to answering questions raised by the movie.  Follow the link below to find the truth about “Angels and Demons”.

http://www.truthaboutangelsanddemons.com/

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Who Decides Medical Treatment for Children?

13 year old Daniel Hauser has cancer.  He and his parents decided not to treat the disease with chemotherapy, but instead with “alternative” medicines.

Apparently, doctors have said that the type of cancer Daniel has can be treated successfully about 90 percent of the time, but that he only has about a 5 percent chance of survival if not treated.

A judge has decided that Daniel has been “medically neglected” by his parents and ordered that he be re-evaluated and treated with chemotherapy if doctors think it will be effective in helping him.

The parents cite religious reasons for not wanting the treatment.  What should be done?  Should the parents or the courts decide?  This is a tough one and has many interesting side stories.  Read a fuller discussion here.

Share your thoughts.

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