Why Christian Student Should Have Been Suspended for Attending Prom

A student of a Christian high school in Findlay, Ohio was suspended from school for attending prom with his girlfriend who attends a public high school.

It seems that the fundamentalist Baptist high school that Tyler Frost attends forbids dancing, rock music, hand-holding, and kissing.

The suspension will cause Frost to miss his graduation ceremony and he will not be allowed to graduate until after he completes his final exams.  His stepfather is not happy and thinks that the school’s rules should not apply outside the classroom (Do they need these kinds of rules to govern what happens IN the classroom?  That would be a wild class!).

Let me say a couple of things.  First, I agree with many who think that the school’s rules are probably too strict.  I am not a legalist and do not like the whole mindset.  The school is one I would hesitate to send my children to just because of their silly rules.

However, I do think that the school has/had every right to suspend Frost.  It seems that everyone is overlooking the fact that Frost and his parents signed a statement of cooperation when they enrolled in the Christian high school.  The statement said that they agreed to abide by the rules of the school.  If they did not like the rules, they could have chosen another school (perhaps the public school).  They had other options.  To decide that the rules are not agreeable to them and are unfair now misses the point.  They agreed to the rules.  They need to abide by them or be open to the consequences.

What are your thoughts?

Read more about this issue here.

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What MUST a Christian believe?

DSB - Wittmer 2 I recently read through a book written by Michael Wittmer, who is professor of systematic and historical theology at Grand Rapids Theological Seminary.  GRTS happens to be the seminary I earned my master’s degree from and Dr. Wittmer is one of my former professors.

Wittmer wrote his most recent book, Don’t Stop Believing: Why Living Like Jesus Is Not Enough, to shed light on the debate between traditional Christianity, which is characterized by its doctrinal statements, and the Emergent Church movement within Christianity, which puts much greater emphasis on how a person lives and much less (or none) on what doctrine a person believes.  Wittmer hopes to convince both sides that it is not one or the other (doctrine vs. right living), but instead it is both (doctrine and right living).

True Christianity, according to Wittmer, requires right belief because right belief leads to right action.  DSB can be summarized by a phrase taken from the book:  “Genuine Christians never stop serving because they never stop loving, and they never stop loving because they never stop believing.”

In DSB, Wittmer attempts to answer the question “What MUST a person believe to truly be a Christian.”  He takes up this topic in chapter two and concludes that, at minimum we must “believe that we are sinners and that Jesus saves us from our sin” (DSB, p. 41).  According to Wittmer, a person does not have to believe anything about the person of Christ (his deity, humanity, life, death, and resurrection) to come to initial saving faith in Christ.  A person can simply trust that Jesus saves them from their sin.  Wittmer does go on to say that a person cannot deny the truths of who Christ was and what he did and truly be saved, but those truths are not necessary for initial saving faith.

I have to admit that I am still thinking through Wittmer’s understanding.  It seems like there is something that must be believed about who Jesus was when I read Romans 10:9:  “if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”  Regardless of what you decide the significance of the word “Lord” is (whether it denotes deity or simply “master”), it requires a belief about who Jesus is.  Paul seems to be saying here that a person must have a correct understanding about who Jesus is.  He is “Lord.”  He is not just a sacrifice for sins.

Interestingly, the passage Wittmer uses in DSB when he discusses this topic in chapter two of the book seems to say something similar.  In Acts 16:29-31, the Philippian jailer asks Paul and Silas what he must do to be saved.  They reply, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved.”  Again, there is the emphasis on believing that Jesus is “Lord.”

Is it essential to believe that Jesus is God to come to saving faith?  Or, can one be saved before understanding the details of who Jesus was as long he believes that he is a sinner and Jesus saves him from his sins (and does not deny the truth of who Jesus was)?

I am not so sure.  I am still working through this one, but I would like to know what you think.  Leave a comment and share your thoughts.

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A Case for Justified Lying

This post is the follow-up to a previous entry where I asked, “Is it always wrong to lie?”  In the previous post I defined a lie as “an intentional deception” and then pointed out ways that we go about using deception every day, but do not think of it as wrong (or at least we recognize a need for it).  Here are some of those ways:

  • We use deception to keep secrets – like when we are trying to throw a surprise birthday party for our child.
  • We use deception in games – we fake passes in football and basketball, we try to deceive our opponent in chess, and we try to either pretend we have a strong hand in Poker or a weak one (whichever is to our advantage).
  • We tell lies (or half-truths) to show love – we thank people for singing at church (even if the song was not so great).
  • We use deception to keep ourselves safe – we instruct our children to never tell a stranger that they are home alone (even if they are).

We also see situations in the Bible where lying either seems to be praised or, at least not condemned as wrong.  Here are some examples:

  • In Exodus 1, the midwives disobeyed pharaoh’s command to kill all male Hebrew children, and then lied to pharaoh when questioned about why they were disobedient.  At the end of the story, we are told that the “widwives feared God.”
  • In Joshua 2, Rahab hides the Hebrew spies and lies to their potential captors to keep them safe.  She is praised for her “friendly welcome” in Hebrews 11:31.
  • In 1 Samuel 16:1-3, God instructs Samuel to keep his mission a secret from Saul by telling him a lie (or at least a half truth).

These are a few examples of where lying seems to be okay in the Bible.  But why is this so?  The Bible clearly tells us that lying is wrong.  Why would it seem okay in some situations and is it okay for us?  I believe that Bruce Waltke in his commentary on Joshua found in The New Bible Commentary has helpful words to give us clarity on this topic.  He writes concerning Joshua 2 and Rahab:

Reconnaissance, espionage, and deception are necessary in war, even holy war (see 1; Jdg 7:9–16). Rahab hid the spies and misled the king of Jericho’s scouts with lies (2–7). She clandestinely let the spies escape and instructed them how to avoid detection by hiding in the mountains pitted with caves to the west of the city—the opposite of what might be expected by a posse (16–17). The deceptions by Joshua and Rahab raise eyebrows. How can they be a legitimate part of holy war? (Cf. Mt. 5:33–37; Eph. 4:14–15).

Indirect analogies of situations where deception and disinformation are right and necessary may help. Hunters use traps and blinds; fishermen, lures and bait. In sport, players will often try to trick their opponents by putting spin on a ball or adopting deceptive postures. In chess a player deceives his opponent into taking his weaker piece in order to capture his stronger one; in poker one keeps a ‘straight face’. God was kind to the midwives for deceiving Pharaoh (Ex. 1:19–20), and ‘by faith Moses’ parents hid him for three months after he was born’ (Heb. 11:23). In all these situations we do not accuse the participants of acting according to the unethical principle that a right end justifies a wrong means. Rather, we recognize that in such situations deception is legitimate, not wrong. So also the OT recognizes that in war intelligence, counter-intelligence and decoys are all part of ‘the game’. Joshua set an ambush (Jos. 8:9), and David used Hushai as a mole in conjunction with a network of spies (2 Sa. 15:32–37; 16:15–22). In the NT Paul escaped the Jews under the cover of night (Acts 9:23–26), and the angel took advantage of the sleeping soldiers to release Peter from Herod’s clutches (Acts 12:6–10). In most situations, however, lies are wrong (Pr. 30:7–8), and truth is required (Eph. 4:15).

So, for Waltke, the Rahab’s lie was okay because the rules of the game (war) did not require truth.  Lying and deception are a part of war, just like they are a part of chess, football, hunting, etc.  So too, are other situations in or lives.  We do not need to tell strangers the truth if it could put us in danger to do so.  If we were hiding Jews in Nazi Germany, we would have no obligation to tell the German soldiers at our door that we were doing so.  We can throw surprise parties for our child without feeling guilty for deceiving him to do so.  There are times when lying is justified because they are properly part of the “game.”

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Over-Eating the Reason for Our Weight, Not Lack of Exercise

I recently posted an entry dealing with the obesity rate among Americans.  The post specifically dealt with a recent study that claims that 1-in-5 four year old children is physically obese.

Well, another study claims that the U.S. obesity problem is mostly the result of over-eating, not a lack of physical activity.  I am not greatly surprised by this finding, but it does cause me to stop and ask the same question I asked before:  As Christians, why are we so quick to point out all of the other sins of our culture while ignoring this one?  Gluttony is called a sin in the Bible.  It is a major problem in the U.S.  Do we ignore the problem because so many of us have it ourselves?

What if we took the Bible’s command to care for our bodies seriously (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)?  Would it change our diets and how we exercise?

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Is it Always Wrong to Lie?

I recently taught through some Sunday school curriculum that covered the story of Rahab found in Joshua chapter 2.  In the story, Rahab protects two Hebrew spies by lying to those seeking the spies concerning their whereabouts.  The Bible praises Rahab and paints her as the heroine in the story.  The Bible also gives Rahab praise later in the New Testament (Hebrews 11:31).  The curriculum I was using explained the situation like this:

The Bible praises Rahab not for her lie, but because of her desire to help the spies, who were God’s people.  Even though Rahab’s lie was wrong, God overlooked her sin and used it for good.

This understanding of the story of Rahab is pretty typical in the Sunday school curriculum I have come across.  But is it true?  The Bible never seems to hint that Rahab’s lie was wrong, in fact it praises Rahab for the actions she took to hide the spies (which was primarily to lie for their protection).

If one takes a view that lying is always wrong, you must come to a similar conclusion as found above concerning Rahab.  She cannot be praised for wrong-doing.

Is it possible that there are times when lying is okay?  Are there times when lying may even be the best option?

If we define a “lie” as “an intentional deception”, then all of the things below are lies:

  • telling your wife she looks good in a dress even if you are not particularly pleased with it
  • a quarterback acting as though he were going to throw the ball in one direction, only to actually throw it somewhere else
  • telling your 10 year old daughter that you are stopping by the house to pick up something you forgot, only to surprise her with a birthday party
  • if a stranger asks a teenage child if they are home alone and they reply that they are not (when they truly are home alone)

All of the above things are intentional deceptions and therefore they are technically lies.  Should we stop doing them?  If lying is always wrong, how can we justify our continued use of lying?

What are your thoughts?  I plan to post more on this topic, but want to get your feedback first.

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Correction: Free Alistair Begg messages at Truth For Life

Yesterday, I wrote that Alistair Begg’s entire catalog of messages would be available at the Truth For Life website on May 11th.  Well they will be, but what I failed to tell you is that those messages will be free forever!  Thanks to Bob Butts who sent me a message clarifying.

You do not need to wait until May 11th though.  The messages are already free.  May 11th is just the hard launch of this amazing promotion.  Go to the Truth For Life website now and download all of the Alistair Begg messages that you want.

Here is the link to Truth For Life.  The downloads are available in the Resource Store.

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Free Alistair Begg messages at Truth For Life on May 11th

Correction (added May 6th):  Alistair’s entire catalog is available for free forever, not only on May 11th.  In fact, the entire catalog is available for free now.  May 11th is only the “official” launch date.  Go to the website now to download Alistair’s messages.

My favorite speaker, Alistair Begg, is making his entire catalog of messages free for a full day.  Go to the Truth For Life website on May 11th and download all you want.

Alistair is heard around the world on his daily radio program, but if you are not familiar with him, this would be a great opportunity to download some of his sermons and give him a try.  I do not think you will be disappointed!  If you do not want to wait until May 11th, you can also listen to streaming audio of his daily radio broadcast on the Truth For Life website.

Here is a link to Truth For Life’s homepage.

Here is a link to the information about the free downloads.

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How should Christians think about professional sports?

Okay, I have to begin by stating that I am a HUGE sports fan.  I especially love college and professional football.  I also enjoy Major League Baseball, but rarely ever watch it since the games are not televised on local television stations (I do not have cable or satellite).

However, the last few years I have been wondering if Christians should restrain from the sports culture that we live in here in the United States.  Here are a few reasons why I have been thinking about this:

  • First, it is obvious that professional, and even college sports are deeply ingrained in our culture.  Sporting events are multi-billion dollar industries here.  For many, life revolves around cheering on their favorite teams and owning the relevant merchandise.  We could even say that sports and specific athletes have become gods to some.
  • Secondly, the owners and athletes involved in professional sports make ridiculous amounts of money.  They are some of the highest paid people in our society.  I am not against a person making money or even being wealthy, but something is wrong when a person who plays a game makes more money than doctors, CEOs, etc.
  • Lastly, with all of the wealth and fame that being a professional athlete brings, there seems to be an unusually high amount of negligent behavior from this group of young elites.  Am I an enabler as a fan who gives my money and encouragement to these people?  Would I serve this group of people better by removing my money and praise so that they are hopefully forced to live in a world that is more realistic and holds them equally accountable for their actions?

What do you think?  How should Christians think about professional sports?

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Is Christianity in America Changing?

Last month, Newsweek published a cover story titled “The End of Christianity in America.”  In the article, Jon Meacham cites recent statistics that show a decline in the number of people who are self-professed Christians.  It seems that in 1990, 86% of Americans identified themselves as Christian, whereas today only 76% do.  The number of people who claim no religious affiliation also rose in the same time period from 8% to 15%.

So, where does that leave us?  The Newsweek article seems to speculate that the trend will continue until the number of Christians left in the U.S. is a small minority rather than the overwhelming majority it has been (and still is at 76%).

Damon Linker has a different perspective that he writes about on the NPR.org website.  Linker believes that, rather than the eventual demise of Christianity, what we are witnessing is a shift in the type of Christianity that is mainstream.  He states in his article that there has been a battle between liberal streams of Christianity and more conservative forms.  In the middle of the 20th century, the liberal forms seemed to be the more dominant.  However, more recently the more conservative forms have been the more influential.

Since conservative Christianity is a Christianity that is much harder to swallow for a non-Christian or less fervent Christian, what we are seeing is a disassociation with conservative Christianity.

Where does that leave us as a nation?  Where is our main religious system heading?  Linker believes that we are heading toward what sociologist Christian Smith calls “Moralistic Therapeutic Deism.”  Here are the main tenants of this system:

  1. A God exists who created and orders the world and watches over human life on earth.
  2. God wants people to be good, nice, and fair to each other, as taught in the Bible and by most world religions.
  3. The central goal of life is to be happy and to feel good about oneself.
  4. God does not need to be particularly involved in one’s life except when he is needed to resolve a problem.
  5. Good people go to heaven when they die.

How do you feel about this?  Would you welcome this form of Christianity?  Linker acknowledges that some will not be thrilled.  He writes,

Theologically speaking, this watered-down, anemic, insipid form of Judeo- Christianity is pretty repulsive. But, politically speaking, it’s perfect: thoroughly anodyne, inoffensive, tolerant. And that makes it well-suited to serve as the civil religion of the highly differentiated 21st century United States.

So, is Linker correct in his assessment of the future of Christianity in the U.S.?  If so, is he right that this is a welcome change?

Read Linker’s entire article here.

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What do you know about poverty in the U.S.?

We often think that poverty and hunger only exist in other places of the world.  Surely, there cannot be many in the U.S. who these words apply to.

Did you know:

  • In 2007, 37.3 million people (12.5%) were in poverty.
  • In 2007, 7.6 (9.8%) million families were in poverty.
  • In 2007, 20.3 million (10.9%) of people aged 18-64 were in poverty.
  • In 2007, 13.3 million (18%) children under the age of 18 were in poverty.
  • In 2007, 3.6 million (9.7%) seniors 65 and older were in poverty.

(Source: http://feedingamerica.org/faces-of-hunger/hunger-101/hunger-and-poverty-statistics.aspx )

 

These statistics are all concerning individuals and families within the United Sates.  Are you surprised?  Who is responsible to care for these people?  What should the Church’s role be?

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